Update on date for letters

Sorry for the inconvenience….due to the Memorial Holiday and the Parole Board being closed on Friday’s we will need all letter’s by Monday May 23rd. We have to overnight them to the commissioners so they can read them before the hearing.

Thanks again in advance!!!

Parole Update...

Update on Dana Mandell…

A parole hearing for Dana has been scheduled for May 31st, 2011 at 1:00pm. The location of the hearing is: Parole Board Room 101 / 1677 Old Hot Springs Road Suite A, Carson City, NV. Daniel’s family would appreciate letters written on Daniel’s behalf to provide to the commissioners. This May will be 4 years since we lost Daniel and providing a letter will hopefully help the commissioners make the correct choice in keeping Dana off parole. Anyone can also appear at the hearing, present documents and/or testify on Daniel’s behalf. Anything written that you can provide would be greatly appreciated and really mean a lot to Daniel’s family. Please address the letters to: The Nevada Board of Parole Commissioners.

You can mail your letter to (no later than Wed May 25th): Attn: Pat Sharp P.O. Box 127 Moxee, Wa. 98936
Or you can email them to (no later than Fri May 27th): jensharp25@yahoo.com
Thank you in advance!!!

Thinking about you

Just wanted to say hi, been in my thoughts lately.

Dana Mandell update

As of December 2, 2010 Dana Mandell was released into the custody of Parole and Probation. This means she does not have to serve her 8 years with possible parole at 3 years. In this program, she will be let out into public, able to be with her family and friends and enjoy most of the freedoms we all have. While doing this she will be supervised by a Parole Officer. This announcement came as a shock to my family for a couple of reasons. One, the program that she has been released into was never discussed when we entered the plea bargain. These types of programs are kept hush hush to the victim’s family since there’s a high possibility that they will not serve their full sentence and most likely will get out before they are up for parole. The second slap in the face was that our family received the letter 2 days before Thanksgiving. The decision to release Dana was made the first week in October. Being that it was a Holiday week when we received the letters and Dana was getting out the following week, my aunt had 3 days to try to over-turn the decision. She made several calls to the State of Nevada Department of Corrections on up to the Attorney General. Unfortunately, there was little she could do in such a short amount of time and Dana was let out.

On a better note, if you have some extra time during this holiday season write a special note about Daniel or share a memory:)

In respectful rememberance and eternal sorrow.May God keep your spirit at his side always.

Happy 30th!

Happy 30th birthday Daniel!
I hope you have a fabulous celebration up in Heaven!! Just know that we are thinking of you today my friend!


Love,
Lori Hughes
Las Vegas

We love and Miss you

Daniel,
I was in Europe on May 29th and 30th this year, but I was thinking about you. I got to see many beautiful churches while I was there and all week I was looking for one to light a candle for you. I must have been inside 12 of them and not one had candles at all. I was beginning to think maybe we only did that here in the U.S., but then I saw this Beautiful Cathedral in the south of France in a town called Arles. It had been there for hundreds of years. I walked inside and amazingly there were candles lit and only one unlit one in the candle box. God must have saved that candle for you! I prayed for you and your family and lit your candle, then I took a picture. It wasn't until later that night when I looked at the time stamp on my camera did I realize that it was 10:58 am in France on May 30th.... 2:58 am in Las Vegas. I guess I found the only candle at the exact time I was supposed to light it for you. Happy Birthday Dan, you are not forgotten.

Lori Hughes
Las Vegas

Nothing can take away the terrible pain of your loss. I would not wish to do anything
to cause more tears for you. I know it means little or nothing to you, but at least
know that we grieve with you and for you and you are not forgotten for one waking
moment. We will light a candle in remembrance today, as we did on your birthday.
Our tears will never be enough , nothing can erase the past. Just believe that the
sorrow and remorse are genuine . We are so very, very sorry.

If you feel this post is inappropriate or will cause more pain than good, please delete it.

Happy Birthday Bro

Hard to imagine its been 2 years. sometimes it seems like yesterday, others seem like its been forever since i've seen you. I was just at la wis wis this past weekend, thought alot about you and Steve. I'm sure you were laughing your ass off at us. Make sure you behave yourself tonight, i know how you like a good time, especially on your birthday!!

Much Love
Maltos

Happy "29th" Birthday Daniel

It’s hard to believe you’ve been gone now for 2 years and this will be the second year that we celebrate your birthday without you. To this day when we have our family get-togethers, both your and Steve’s absence is still greatly felt and unfortunately that’s a feeling I don’t think will ever change. There’s no doubt in my mind both of you will be there tonight enjoying the conversations, watching the people and laughing at us play volleyball. Today is your special day and I’m happy to be part of the celebration. I miss you so much, cherish all the memories we made and love you with all my heart!!!

Goodbyes are not forever. Goodbyes are not the end. They simply mean We’ll miss you, Until we meet again! (author unknown)

Always,
Jennifer

Daniel's 29th Birthday Get-together

Daniel's 29th Birthday is this coming Friday, May 29th. We are celebrating his special day with a low-key get together in Yakima. We will have food, volleyball and of course great company. You are more than welcome to join us on this special day. For directions/info, please call Jennifer (206)409-9509.

memories

You were talked about a lot this past weekend. Megan came down to visit and Jay now lives here. We all had plenty of stories to share. I’m sure you were sitting right there with a smile on your face loving every bit of it. We all miss and love you so much. Love You, Jennifer

luv ya all

to sherrie and lexi love you both i just read the outcome im still not happy im on my way to vegas to make things right i miss my brother steve he was my fav bro he was there when my parents wernt ill defend his/your honor see you

Brodi James Brown…

…the newest and most precious addition to our family. We know you are enjoying this blessing as much as we are. There’s no doubt in our minds both you and Steve are watching over us with smiles on your faces and joy in your hearts.

We Love You!!!

Dan

I find myself thinking about you more often than usual since your trial a few weeks back. My mom was able to be there. She spoke with me right after the sentencing, which was an emotional conversation to say the least. I am glad that the trial is over, even though it obviously will not bring you back. I hope that girl that took your life sits in her cell daily, thinking about how her irresponsible actions ended your life that evening.

It has been nearly one & half yrs since that horrible night. I still cannot believe that you have moved on from this world. I have no doubt that you’re in a better place, as I truly believe there is life after death. I wish so badly that we could just go out, shoot the shit one last time. What hurts me the most is the last year or two prior to the tragic accident, that we had lost touch. Both of our lives were extremely busy, didn’t not find time to keep in touch. I regret tremendously. I also wish so badly that you could have met my little man, Boston. He is just the cutest little thing, walking all over the place now. He just turned one a few weeks ago, right before the trial.

Now that I'm a dad I truly know how precious life is. The one thing that you have taught me is to live for the moment, as we are not guaranteed tomorrow. I find myself waking up every morning attempting to do just that. I see your mom/sister almost weekly and can’t help but hurt for them every time I see them. Just want you to know that the family continues to take care of them.
I know that Steve is strumming the guitar & you are the hit of the party up there. Will see you again someday…..

E

The Sentencing 9/10/08

The sentencing was last week in Las Vegas. Several of Daniel's family members went in honor of Daniel. It was a very emotional day, but Judge Jennifer Togliatti did an amazing job at comforting our family. We all left feeling like she knew Daniel and was not making him just another statistic. I am copying the minutes from the hearing. To sum it up, the case was a plea bargain with Dana Mandell pleading guilty to only ONE of three charges. She plead guilty to (DWI accident w/Fatality/bodily harm), which is a felony. She was sentenced to 8 years in prison, but will be able to go up for parole after 3.


Court noted correspondence and documentation provided in preparation for
sentencing in this matter. HAVING PREVIOUSLY PLED GUILTY TO COUNT 1 OF THE
INDICTMENT, DEFT. MANDELL ADJUDGED GUILTY of DRIVING AND/OR BEING IN ACTUAL
PHYSICAL CONTROL WHILE UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF INTOXICATING LIQUOR CAUSING
DEATH AND/OR SUBSTANTIAL BODILY HARM (F). Statement by Deft. apologizing to
Victim and family. Argument by counsel in mitigation of sentence. Victim
speakers, Patricia Sharp, Grandmother of Decedent; Lexi Mathers, Sister of
Decedent; Sharrie Baird-Mathers, Mother of Decedent, Daniel Baird, gave
impact statements in consideration of sentence. Court addressed the
Victim's family and advised them of the nature of the negotiations and the
law regarding the stipulated sentence. COURT admonished Defendant and
ORDERED, in addition to the $25.00 Administrative Assessment Fee, $60.00
Drug Analysis fee, $150.00 DNA Analysis fee including testing to determine
genetic markers and $18,665.53 Restitution (VC 2179284), Deft. SENTENCED to
a MINIMUM of THIRTY SIX (36) MONTHS and a MAXIMUM of NINETY (90) MONTHS in
the Nevada Department of Corrections (NDC) with 13 DAYS credit for time
served; DEFT. REMANDED to CUSTODY in this matter for incarceration in NDC.
COURT ORDERED, BOND EXONERATED. CASE CLOSED.

NDC

Some of the T-shirts for the sentencing in honor of Daniel

The G-Spot Barbershop...

Dan, I wrote to you the day before my Grand Opening and it didn't get posted. So, I am here writing you again. It's been 10 days since my Grand Opening party and things are going well. I'm sure you were looking down on us enjoying everything that was going on. I feel truly blessed to have such a person in my life that has forever changed my life. I am in the process of getting a picture of you up on my wall, but in the meantime have included you on my menu of prices. Instead of a beard trim, I have named it the "Baird" trim. Lord only knows how many different ways and how often you used to change your facial hair. I will post again once your pic is up in my shop.

I love you and miss you!

Gino Reyes
Owner/Barber
The G-Spot Barbershop
1611 8th Ave. N #102
Seattle, WA 98109
206-280-6907

WRITTING A LETTER in HONOR of DANIEL for the sentencing

For those of you who are interested in writing a letter describing how this crime has affected you and your life and also describe what you feel the terms of punishment should be, please send them NO LATER THEN AUGUST 12th 2008. The letters HAVE TO BE addressed as below:DO NOT send the letters to the Las Vegas address.

To the Honorable Jennifer Togliatti
Clark County Regional Justice Center
District Court-Department 9
200 Lewis Ave.
Las Vegas, NV. 89155

Dear Judge Togliatti,


PLEASE SEND THE LETTERS TO: Sherrie Baird-Mathers
P.O. Box 127
Moxee, Wa. 98936


As of now the sentencing is scheduled for Wed. September 10th 2008 at 9am. For more information you can call (206)409-9509 or email jensharp25@yahoo.com.

Thank you in advance for taking the time to write the letters.
Jen

It's that little bit of time...

Dan,

It's the little bit of time that we are the same age for less than two weeks, before I feel old again. A lot has changed since last year and things keep changing more and more every day. I'll be 29 in a week and all I can think about is turning 30. I wish you were here for my 30th and I could see you turn 30 as well. I often think about you every now and then, remembering funny stories and sharing them with whoever is with me. Just today, I was out fishing with Rich and began to tell a story about you. He swears to this day, that you were the only friend of mine that was ever nice to him.

This week is a big week for me, I just took and passed my state written exam for barbering last Saturday and will be taking my practical exam in 2 days. I will be done with barber school on Saturday and 5 steps closer to making my dream a reality. I will be taking time off in June to spend some time with my mom, who is not doing real well. I hope to have a fraction of the relationship that you had with your mom. I know her time is coming very soon and I know you guys will cross paths in heaven. I miss you much and think about you often. I will think of some way to incorporate you into my Shop, that's a promise.

You are in my heart, my thoughts and will never be deleted from my phone.

I love you.....-Gino-

1 year later

It’s been a year since the phone rang shortly after 4:00am delivering the news that would forever change our lives. I’ve waited a year to let reality set in, before trying to put scattered thoughts into meaningful words. My own pain has been hard for me to justify, after watching a mother lose her son, a sister lose her brother, a brother lose his best friend, a family tree lose it’s most colorful leaf…my own loss seemed insignificant in comparison. But please know that I feel deep pain and a tremendous sense of loss, unlike anything I’ve ever felt before. As I attempt to learn from the lessons that death intends to teach, I’m finding small pieces of hope left in your wake. I’m seeing the people you left behind make meaningful changes in their lives as the process of healing takes place…whether it’s taking themselves a little less seriously, taking more time to enjoy life, spending less time worrying, taking advantage of opportunities to be with friends and family before the opportunities aren’t there or just being thankful for each day that we’re given on this earth, and living life to it’s fullest.

This past year has made me much more aware of death and the loss that people everywhere cope with every day, and I’ve come to the conclusion that there is no good timing, and no appropriate way to leave…there will always be people left behind asking “why?” and wishing for another day. There were loved ones who never got to wish you a Happy Birthday, friends who never said Good-Bye, that last “I Love You” that someone forgot to say, the second chance someone never gave you, the rushed conversation that someone wishes would have lasted a little bit longer…so many people left begging for a second chance, wishing there was a rewind button. But I hope that comfort can be found in knowing that you were happy, enjoying your life and at peace with yourself when your time was up. It doesn’t make it fair, but nothing can.

I know you’re with us in spirit, but I want to reassure you that things are exactly as you’d want them…in spite of this tragedy your family has rallied together and become an inspiring force of support and strength. They are truly keeping your spirit alive and I’m honored and thankful to be a part of it. Your friends are still sharing all your crazy stories and vowing to forever remember that incredible smile, your zest for life and the love you so generously shared with everyone around you. There is a Native American Proverb that says “They are not gone who live in the hearts they left behind” and I can find no stronger testament to that than you.

I still cry over you during the hard times, but when times are good, you know I’m raising my glass and toasting to you! As time goes by, I’m hoping for less crying and a lot more toasting, and I know that’s how you would want it. Cheers to you, Daniel.

Carli

Birthday Celebration for Daniel

Saturday May 31st we are having an all day Birthday Celebration in Memory of Daniel which will be held in Yakima.
The party is going to have a Mexican theme and we’re going to have a celebration that Daniel would be proud of. We all know how much he enjoyed social gatherings, so if you’d like to join us on this special day, please call Jennifer for more details. We look forward to seeing you!!!



Thank you,
Jennifer
(206) 409-9509

We Miss You

Just want to let you know I’m thinking of you and wish you were here.
Max and Tevi miss seeing their uncle Dan
We Love you!!!
Jen

I just found out today Dan

Dan...

I am in a total state of shock and can't stop crying. So many memories flooded thru my head today. My heart is breaking for your family...especially your mom. I remember the first time we met partying on my 50th birthday and you shocked both me and the whole crowd when you slammed me up against the wall and laid a lip lock on me....It was all about the shock factor but the sweetest kiss I had ever had
;-)....you were always so funny and I will never forget the time you chased me and my car in the parking garage and threw yourself on my hood and planted your face on my windshield....another time when you and Cathy were downtown and I was coming out the little grocery store and you grabbed my Almond Joy and ran. I also remember all the phone calls when you were losing and lost Cathy and the many tears....all the phone calls when you or I were breaking up with someone.. always followed by a pizza and movie night at my house and laughs on my couch.....hugs and kisses when I needed them....then last year before I went to Mexico and you went to Vegas we had our last pizza and movie night....I kinda withdrew....SHAME on me!! I always knew you were there for me...and took that for granted ...I should have called more. The last time I called you I couldn't get hold of you and now I know why....My heart is literally broken today....I will never never never forget you....always a ray of sunshine and that incredible smile and laugh...those beautiful eyes....I love you Dan...my sweet sweet friend ....Now you are heaven's most beautiful angel....Please give my mom a kiss .. and one of those smiles and tell her I love her....Beautiful man I will see you sooner than you may think.
My love always, CarrieAnn

I wish you were here

It’s been a while since I’ve wrote and I feel really bad for not writing and wishing you a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. You were and always are in my thoughts. I still can’t believe you’re gone. I was going through work emails a couple days ago and I found a letter I wrote to a potential client, it was dated May 29th 2007. Seeing that date brought back many memories of that day and unfortunately that night. I can remember Carli and I took the dogs for a long walk after work, and when we got back, I called and wished you a happy birthday. You were just finishing some shopping and as we ended the call, you we’re getting into the cab. Little did I know 9 hours later I would receive a life changing call that I will never forget. Here it is 8 months after your tragic death and I find myself still asking why something like this happened. It is still so hard for me to imagine growing old without you in my life. We would always talk about the future while making memories. It seems as time goes on I miss you more and more and cry every time I read a new post to your website. So many people feel the loss of you and because of you, the same people have made many positive life changes. You have inspired so many people to live now and follow their dreams. We all feel your strength and only hope we can leave such a memorable impression on one another as you have on us. There is no way of measuring the loss our family feels or describe the emptiness in our hearts. I miss you so much and just wish there was something I could do to bring you back. Keep sending me your love, strength and courage… I need it

I Love and Miss you so MUCH,
Jen

An inspiration to me always....

I can think back to when Dan and I were like to caddy girls still in High School. Always looking at each other and having something to say and made sure everybody heard. These were the good ol' days at The Bon Marche. It took a while, but we later learned how much we really had in common. From that day on, there was a love we shared for each other, that I think of so often and wonder why I never told you how much I really did love and admire you. Sometimes, I just think of you...like tonight. I keep your name and number in my cell phone, so you are always with me. Thank you Jen for making this sight for Dan! I was always the cautious one who didn't really go out and wanted to settle down. We had even talked about enjoying life somewhere warm, if we were still single by 40. That seemed like forever and a lifetime away, but 30 is approaching quickly. The last time I saw you, we were showing off our new cars. (Always a competition!) It's so funny how some things never change. I took the loss of you harder than I had imagined. We are the same age for 2 weeks and I always know that around that time and especially the end of June, I will see you. The end of June festivities usually make up for the rest of the year I don't see you. I remember so many nights that I would go home puking my guts out, trying to drink as much of you. (Always a competition!) I can think of so many fun times that I think I could write a short novel. Getting back to missing you...Since my birthday I decided to make some real life changes. I decided that life is too short and I need to start acting my age and enjoy life and everything is has to offer. I quit my job and decided to pursue my dream of opening my own barbershop boutique. I am in Barber school now! An ode to our competitions in beards, goatees and haircuts. I am still scared to fly, so I haven't really totally let loose, but I am almost there. Tyrese and I get together and your name comes up at least once. Life will never be the same without you here, but I hold enough memories in my heart to feel like you are just busy and not able to hang out. I'll keep it that way as long as I can. I will figure out some way to have a part of you in my shop. As soon as I know exactly what it is, I know you will let me know. -Gino Reyes-

Happy Thanksgiving

Daniel,

This is way overdue and I apologize for not writing to you sooner. Again, I have so many mixed emotions right now. I’m trying to focus on what I’ve learned from the past 6 months of my life. There are days I can’t even look at your website and if I do, I only take a quick glance before closing it. My heart breaks when I let myself dwell on what has happened. It is so weird, I can picture you so vividly as if you were sitting in front of me or if you were driving your new car. I know exactly how you would look driving it and the things you’d be saying…”Honey don’t sleep”. That was one of your famous lines to me letting me know you were going places and your dreams were coming true. Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and I’m really not looking forward to this Holiday season. I can’t imagine our family getting together with 2 of our members missing. Not one of us ever planned for what has happened to our family this year. I know I’ve already said this, but you would be thrilled out how much closer our family has become. What has happened has taught us all a very important lesson in that it’s ok to take a step back and realize the important things in life because you never know what tomorrow or 5 minutes from now will bring. I’ve been thinking the past few days what I’m thankful for this Thanksgiving, and there are many things I’m thankful for, but the one thing that stands out most is our family and the impact you have made on each one of us. You have made an everlasting impression on all of us and I thank you for that. I found a candle to bring to the cabin in light of you, Steve and Michael. It is perfect. It smells of cinnamon toast. When I saw that I knew it was the one. I can remember you and Steven when we were younger always eating cinnamon toast with hot coco for breakfast every morning. We will keep it lit during the Holiday. I know you and Steve will be with us and we will be thinking of you both. I’m sure we’ll be sharing past memories and watching videos of us growing up. And of course there will be a few card games. If you can, help me out so I can win the big pot of money:) I’m also bringing up your favorite game, Phase Ten, along with a new dominos game I just learned. The hard part about this is even with telling past memories and playing games, it’s not going to be the same without you and Steve. Keep sending us the strength to make it through another day. I know you will be with us and I wish you a very special Thanksgiving and know I will be thinking of you. I miss you more than words can say and love you with all of my heart.

Always,

Jen

yourdeathtube blog entry

Someone posted a blog entry about Daniel on yourdeathtube (a memorial website) on August 3rd. There's a link the Las Vegas Review Journal article about the accident and a link to Daniel's website.

Steve

Prez

I still cant believe that you are gone. I know this is what most people say when someone they know passes, but there is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you Dan. Whenever I lay out on my dock or go over to Madison beach I always remember the times we spent there basking in the sun, of course our time in the sun was never complete without a stop at Cactus. The food doesnt taste the same there with out you Dan. I miss you so much and I know we will see each other again and when we do, be prepared to loose your position as president. Ill bring the cards, you bring the drinks. I love you so much.
Much love,
your "step-daughter" Elizabeth

Daniel's Slideshow

Daniel's slideshow (from the DVD) is finally up and running at www.danielwilliambaird.com.

Steve

Thank you

I just wanted to thank everyone that helped and/or donated to our yard sale this past weekend. Everyone really pulled together and made it a great success. When people walked into the Terrace Heights Grange they couldn't believe how much stuff we had. It was such a great feeling to see so many people contribute to an event that meant so much to Daniel's family. We all feel so blessed.

Thank you again,
Jen

The Wristbands are here

I have received the wristbands in Memory of Daniel. I'm really happy with how they turned out. If you would like to order one or many, please make a check out to Jennifer Sharp and send it to: 4507 SE 72nd Ave. Portland Oregon 97206. Again they are $5.00 each and I'm happy to send you the order, just make sure the address is included with your check.

P.S. Not only can you wear the bracelet, but they also look really good hanging around the rear view mirror of your car or even on the gear shifter.

Thank you for all the love and support.
Jen

Wrist bands

Just wanted to say that I got my wrist band & love it. Thanks to Jen for ordering these, so that can all remember Dan every time you look down. I am planning on ordering several more, as most people that I tell want to buy one to support the cause & raise money for the fam!!! Take it easy up there Dan & I have know doubt that your in a better place now. Erik

Yard Sale Help

Hello Again,

Just a reminder about the Memorial Yard Sale we're putting on this weekend. If anyone is available Thursday (tomorrow) at anytime to stop by the Terrace Heights Grange and help set up that would be greatly appreciated. Unfortunately I have to work until 4:00pm Thursday, then I'm headed back to Yakima for the weekend. I would like to be able to get there sooner to help set up but not sure if that will happen, so if you have some free time to spare we would LOVE your help. We moved it to the Terrace Heights Grange because we had such a great response to our request for donations, we needed more space. If you're not able to make it out Thursday, come see us Friday or Saturday. It's going to be an all day event, both days. If you have any questions just give me a call (206)409-9509. I hope to see you all this weekend. Thank you again for all the love and support.

Love,
Jen

Daniel's Domain

http://www.danielwilliambaird.com/

This is a work in progess.

I Miss You....

Daniel,
When I posted the first message on this bog I was at a loss for words and almost had a sense of numbness. Well almost a month and a half later I feel more pain now than when I first heard the awful news. Now, the initial shock and numbness is wearing off and reality is starting to settle in. I find myself crying over memories we made and the next moment feeling very angry about memories that were yet to come. This was not part of our plan and the fact that this is so permanent is so devastating. I truly know what it feels like to have a broken heart. My chest physically hurts and I feel like the wind has been knocked out of me now since May 30. I know you are watching us right now and I hope you can see, feel and sense the love our family carries on. We all have this unspoken commitment to love one another now more then ever. You were always so proud of our family and all the accomplishments each of us made and whenever you had a chance you always made sure we knew just how proud you were of us. I can only hope I make our family feel as loved and perfect as you did. Since you’ve been gone people have come out of the woodwork with letters, phone calls, dropping by Market Optical and posting comments on your blog. I always knew you had a big heart, but I never knew how much you truly touched the people you met. No matter how long someone knew you, you made each person feel so loved, special and most of all wanted. You filled their hearts with compassion and gave them a reason to smile. You truly did make an everlasting impression on EVERY person you made contact with. It is such a comforting feeling to know that my cousin was loved by so many people. As the days go on I’m trying to figure out how my life will continue without you just a phone call away. I can so vividly see your facial expressions and hear your voice. The hard part about that is those are all part of our memories and the fact that I’ll never get to hug you and kiss you on the cheek again makes me feel so sad. I want you to know that I am going to do what ever it takes to keep your spirit alive and never will there be a day that goes by that I don’t think about you. You will always remain the life of my party and I want you to be there spirit celebrating with us. I’m sure you can feel all the love and support our family has received and I can’t say thank you enough to all the compassionate individuals who have shown their support. Brandi dreamt the other night that the two of you got to hang out and you told her that you loved the new place you now call home. I can only imagine what it’s like. I went to your condo for the first time since this has happened this past weekend and it looked so good. . It was really hard for me to go there and the first few minutes were very overwhelming, but as time went on I just sat and enjoyed one of your biggest accomplishments. The second bedroom looks so awesome with the new fancy futon you just bought and told me all about. You must have gotten your decorating skills from me when we lived together Daniel….I miss you more than words can say and I regret not letting you know how proud of you I am. You’ve accomplished more in your 27 years then most people do in a lifetime. I admire you for that and because of you I want to live each day to the fullest and let people know how much I love them and not just assume they already know. Thank you for always loving me. I am blessed to say you’re MY COUSIN. I love you.

Jennifer

Bless you Daniel

I didn't know Daniel as a adult, But I did know him as a child. I have known his Mother Sherry and her Parents Tom and Pat for many years. I worked with Sherry for 23 years and was lucky enough to answer the phone when Daniel would call. I know you will not get the full benefit of this but Sherry will. Daniel would call and say " This is Daniel can I speak to Sherry Baird please." At that time Daniel had a very unique way of talking.
As time pasted Daniel became an adult and moved to Seattle. Sherry was so proud of her childern. She and Daniel had a very special relationship, the kind that every Mother wishes that she could have with her son. They were not only Mother and Son, they were best friends.
I'm not good at this kind of thing, expressing the kind of feelings that you wish others could understand. The hurt you feel inside for Sherry and her family. The need to be able to help in any way possible. Not wanting to be a pest, but calling to make sure they know your thinking of them, that they are in your prayers. Just wanting to be there if Sherry wants to talk, cry, or just say nothing at all.
As I said before I did not know Daniel as an adult personally, but only thru Sherry. The pride and love that Sherry had for Daniel was so apparent every time she spoke about him or even in just saying his name. I am so sorry for this terrible tragedy. I cannot say enough how sorry I am.
Daniel,
I will do anything and everything that I can to help your Mom thru this time of need. She loved you so very much. You were her shining star, her sun in the day and her star at night. She was and is so very proud of you. Even though you are gone in body you will always be with her in soul and spirit. Her heart is so filled with your love and memories that she will never forget the wonderful times you had together, just the two of you or with the whole family. The letter that Sherry wrote to you and read at your service said it all. It was so, well I guess I can't think of the right word. Just know the it touched every heart that was there. It made you cry and laugh at the same time. It made you go home and give your child, husband and granddaugther (for me anyway) a great big "bear hug". Tell them how much you love them, how proud you are of them, how they make you feel so alive and thankful of all the times they made you laugh, cry, and yes angry.
Daniel, you blessed this earth with you love for such a short time, but made enough memories for a lifetime.
Goodbye Daniel.
Love,
Cheryl
Please know Sherry that I will always be here for you.

YARD SALE-Donations in Memory of Daniel

Hello Again to Everyone-

I just wanted to spread the word and let everyone know our family is organizing a HUGE yard sale in Yakima the weekend of July 20-21st. Again, all money raised is going into a memorial fund. If you or someone you know would like to donate an item (or many) please contact me at jensharp25@yahoo.com or call (206) 409-9509 to make arrangements and/or for directions. If you don't have anything to donate and would just like to stop by and say hi, we would love for that as well. We will have an ad in the classified section in the Yakima Hearld newspaper that weekend with more information.

I know I've said this before, but can't say it enough......Thank ALL of you for your love and support during this time. Our family has been blessed with all the prayers. Come out and join us in memory of Daniel and keeping his spirit alive.

Love,
Jen

Order Memory Bracelet's for Daniel

Hi everyone,

I have ordered these bracelet's in memory of Daniel. All the money made is going to a Memorial Fund. The color blue is only to highlight what the bracelet will say. The wording will be debossed(engraved)into the actual bracelet. I should have them no later then July 27th. If you would like to order one or many, please email jensharp25@yahoo.com or call (206)409-9509. The cost will be $5.oo each.

Thank you everyone for all the love and support you have giving our family. Your thoughts, prayers, kind words and gestures have kept us strong.

Love,
Jennifer

Family Man

If a picture is worth 1,000 words then these pictures speak volumes about your love and loyalty to your family. Your smile shows the happiness in your heart when you're surrounded by those that love you the most. I know that it is your spirit and that amazing smile that will carry your family through their most difficult days.

I don't know what to say. I knew Dan since grade school, but haven't seen him in a really long time, unfortunately. He is someone you never forget. Its sad that the world has lost such a dynamic individual. For his family and close friends, I am sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to you all. We'll see you again Dan.

Christina (Bertschi) O'Doherty

So Many Great Times

Hey Dan!!!

not sure where to start, maybe back in high school when i first moved to Selah. You where one of my first friends I met. And i tell you what, you welcomed me with open arms, and for someone to take in the new kid, that takes one hell of a person. When you came back from The Dallas, when you wrecked your car and you still got a ticket!!! You where so pissed!!! You racked up like 10 tickets in that car(RX-7). The many drives in the country.
Then the day came when I found I was moving to Seattle and we would be roommates for the next two years! Not sure i've ever been soooooo excited! Steven helping me move my bed and dresser up to the apartment. Our first margaritas in the new pad! Taking me to find my first job in Seattle, and they all wanted you to apply for the job, they thought i was your little bro, just tagging along...lol
"Bowling is Fun" how many times did we end up at the bowling alley just you and I at 3 something in the morning!! Loser always paid!! I think i paid more than i should have. Matt & Jens house, playing basketball in Ballard. thats was a great summer. How about you and I trying to get your damn couch up those freakin stairs!!!!! then we finally did it get to the door we couldn't get it in the damn thing!!!

Last Thanksgiving, never would have thought that would be the last time we laughed together. Those two days where so much fun, Thank you for everything you taught me Dan. I LOVE YOU LIKE A BROTHER ALWAYS WILL

Make sure you have your running shoes on, cause i'm taking you everywhere I go!!!
and I will see you soon my friend

WEDDING RECEPTION THANKS TO YOU

Dan, just wanted to let you know that you were at my wedding reception in spirit this last weekend. We set up a memorial for you right next to the dance floor. Prior to the food being served, my mom came out and told everybody that we we’re celebrating your life tonight and to have a good time, because that is what you would have wanted us to do. As people were eating, we played your favorite song. Your mom gave us a wedding card stating, “Daniel was a pretty good match maker.” I wish so badly that you could have seen me marry the lady that you introduced me too. Thanks once again for introducing my wife to me, and that we think about you daily. Everybody misses you Dan, but knows that you’re in a better place looking down on us. Also know that all your family is taking care of each other during this tragic time. Continue to take it easy up there Dan, and save room for me, so we can BS once again some day.

Erik & Rena Leonard

Missing You

Dan,

What can I say that anyone has not said about you already.... Such a wonderful caring person. You were always the life of the "party" and always made people feel comfortable and included. We became friends fast, Instantly connected, and felt as if we'd be friends forever.... theres very few people we meet in our lives that we can see being close to for life. You were one of those people. I miss you like crazy. Its scary, I messaged you on myspace to call me so we could plan a trip for you to come here or me to come to seattle literally minutes before i got the news. I was crushed. I cant fathom that you've actually moved on from this life. They say time heals all wounds... I am still waiting. Miss You. Love Your Good Friend.... Ben.

We love you and miss you Daniel!

Daniel, words cannot describe the sense of loss we are all feeling as a family. I still cannot even believe that this is happening. You have a tremendous spirit and there will never be anyone else like you. I am so grateful for all of the great times that we shared, especially in the past few months. You had the biggest heart and would do anything for us. I cannot tell you how much that has always meant to your brother and I. We shared a special bond, I don't know very many people who talk to their brother in-laws about every other day and always say 'I love you' to each other. I am so thankful to have had you in my life. Every time we talked you always asked how Steven and Trevor were doing and asked me to please give them a big hug and kiss for you. I have been doing that for you and will continue always. And I promise to talk about you everyday to them and tell them how great their Uncle Daniel was. You were so proud of them and I promise you that I will never let them forget that. I love you so much and will see you again in time. Love, Tami

Dan My brother My Friend

How do I start, the story of my childhood filled with boys who grew to be great men. I am the little sister to Josh, Steven, Matt and Dan. Although Dan was barely younger than me he never let me forget that I was the girl trying to be one of the boys. I would ride my bike as hard as I could just to keep up with them, and when I couldn't..they would leave me! But they would always come back about ten minutes later to tell me to PICK IT UP and that this was the LAST time they were going to wait for me. I am truley blessed to have had such good brothers that always watched over me, they are my guardians. As Daniel grew up he changed into this gorgeous man who people gravitated towards. He was like a magnet that sucked you in and made you feel so loved. Every time I would see him, at home or in Seattle, it always started with a huge bear hug and followed with an I love ya. Daniel was an inspiration to us all, being the youngest he made things happen for himself but never forgot where he came from. There is a big part of me that is still angry and so sad, but I know that he wouldn't want me to carry that with me. I will forever miss him and cherish the great memories we had. I feel that I have lost a great friend and brother but gained a guardian angel to help guide me through tough times. I love you Daniel and will see you again..have one ready! Love Melea

Old friend

I just wanted to add that I think Daniel was a wonderful person. When I was a senior in High school we became better friends and I decided to invite Daniel to my senior prom because I knew I would have fun with him (he was a sophomore). We had a very fun time and he was a total gentleman and was the best prom date. He was a great friend and he would be there if I needed anything. We lost touch after I graduated from high school but whenever we ran into each other, it would be just like old times. It looks like he continued on and had a wonderful life, traveling the world. I'm sorry I hadn't kept in touch better but know that you will be missed and I will see you again. Peggy (England) Steward

An old neighbor never forgotten

I was the oldest "girl" hanging out with the boys on 14th street. My little sisters and I lived right next door to Steven and Daniel along with Matt and Josh. I was there every time they were in trouble, fighting, wrecking on their bikes or just being mean. Ahh the good old times.
Even though I was older and a girl, I so badly wanted to be just like all of them. Their toys and bikes were so much cooler than mine. And they would build these jumps that I only wish I could do without my foot slipping of the pedel and the spikes sticking in my shins.
Daniel was so little then and such a pain in the neck. Not the bad kind as I think back but the kind that brings a smile to your heart every time I think about it. Not to mention he was so cute at it. I have lots of stories to tell and could keep you reading for hours and probably laughing until you had tears rolling down your face. I used to love to pick on him, not because it was hurtful but because he would always get this high pitched scream, and run around yelling at you. I remember just laughing at him until he would start laughing. I can still picture his face all twisted up and mad at you and then instantly smile and laugh.
I remember then thinking he is so cute I bet he becomes a ladies man some day.
Then one day they moved away. I still seen all the boys in school but our relationships grew apart, moved on, and started our own lives. I'm happy to hear how Daniel lived his life. I can see he was loved, gifted and happy. It's sad yet rewarding to hear all he's done after his passing. I only wish to fulfill my life and make it as rewarding as his was. I'm proud to say I knew him.
Hey Daniel, I'll see you again and I might just give you your Hot Wheel cars back.
Shannon Heide

COUSIN DAN

Dan, I don't know where to begin. I first want to say that you were an amazing person. I remember you coming down to Portland every summer, which was always tons of fun. You were such a great family man and everybody loved being around you. I remember the time that me & one of my buddies went up to Seattle for a Mariners game. You dropped everything you had going to hang out and show us a good time. You even took us down to Safeco, dropped us off, and came to pick us up after the game. You didn't want us to drink and drive, and have to find parking. We ended up having a kick ass time, thanks to you. You were are private chauffeur that night, and that was just the kind of guy you were. Another great memory, and by far the best one, was the night you introduced me to my wife. We were out at Petes in Yakima, on a random Tuesday night. The comedian was from Portland, and was just clownin on Yakima. We found it so funny, as we both knew where he was coming from (living in the bigger cities and all). I bought some new red Iverson shoes prior to going out that night. I remember going to the bathroom, and all of a sudden the comedian just started calling me out. He said it looked like I was going F------ bowling with my red shoes. You just thought that was one of the funniest things ever. Our waitress, which is now my wife, worked with you in the past. You introduced me to her, and then we all went out to another place once she was off work. The next day we floated the Yakima river, and all I could say was thanks for introducing me to that fine looking girl last night. We ended up getting married 5 years later, thanks to you buddy. We're expecting a little boy in September, and you better believe that I'll tell him stories about my cousin Dan. I want you to know that all your family misses you tremendously. You had so many people that loved and adored you. I think you used to look up to me coming down to Portland when you were young, but I found my self looking up to you when I would see you in Seattle. We're having our wedding reception this weekend, and you will be there in spirit for sure, and still be the life of the party. Thanks for the good memories and being a good cousin/friend. I will always remember you and share your great qualities with my family and friends. You impacted everybody you met. I have no doubt that I'll see you again. I hope you can show me around up there when my time has come, just like you used to in Seattle. Take it easy up there Dan. Love ya bro, your cousin Erik

My neighbor and friend

Dan was my neighbor, my friend, and my little brother. I never had a younger sibling growing up, and I always thought of Dan Baird and Malea Medrano as my little brother and sister. If you know Dan, you know that his childhood friends were from a core neighborhood group that consisted of all of us kids that lived out on Speyers Rd. We spent some of the best afternoons of our lives riding bikes and skateboarding out in front of Dan's house on 14th St. Dan was the little brother and we always had to take him with us wherever we went because if we didn't he would tell on us, and then Steve would be grounded for what seemed like most of his adolescence. Dan was such an ornery kid that he fit right in with us even though we were a little older. Dan was not just a tag-a-long though, he was a member of our crew. Our group of friends has been very blessed. All of us that were so close during those years are still close, and I have always thought of Dan and Steven as my brothers, as well as Josh Medrano. I have so many funny stories of Dan that I really can't pick one, but I will say that Dan had an infectious laugh and smile, and when he made fun of you, you had to laugh because he was also really quick witted and hilarious. Dan and I always had that kind of relationship, he sent me a comment on myspace right before he died that he ended with "Had a good time with you guys the other night, we need to do it more often butt sniff.....". That is the way we always talked to each other and I will miss it. I loved that nothing was off limits with Dan. He was a true friend and would trash talk you one minute, and then stand up for you the next. When I was at his funeral I was speaking with his dad and he told me that Dan always talked to him about my wife Jen and I. He said "Dan really looked up to you" and I was so honored. Dan had so much going for him that it was always hard to imagine that he still looked up to me, but knowing that he did made me feel very proud. I think that Steven and I both ended up looking up to him. I was at his house about a month ago and he was showing me his new SUV, which happened to the dream car of my wife and I, and he was so proud. I would normally be jealous but Dan was a hard worker and I was proud of him. He made a really good life for himself here in Seattle and I loved the nights that we would get a call from him saying he would be over in a few minutes. He always came over just to hang out and check in with us. He loved reminiscing about the old days in the neighborhood. I have had a really heavy heart since he passed, and I am really trying to live better for him. I loved him very much, and I will definitely miss his voice "what's up Shit Dogg". I can still hear you. I miss you and I will see you again. Matt Schmid

Daniel,Although I have the world’s WORST memory ever, as you know, I have many outstanding, unforgettable memories of you that I cherish each day. One – mad wrestling in the basement of our house in Tigard. In fact, I remember in DETAIL what it felt like to have the shit squeezed out of me….literally. :)I also remember taking you to the City Nightclub when you were 16 or so. You were always up to try something new, which I love, so I dressed you up in hot “going-out” attire (white t-shirt, jeans, black chunky shoes) and off we went. You instantly found your groove and were a natural out there on the dance floor that night……I also will cherish our memories of riding horses out at Aunt Sue’s house. You and I were afraid of very little, and Aunt Sue was never too far behind, muttering under her breath…. “Goddamn it, Daniel.”Another memory that stands out is when I randomly called you in Seattle last spring to see if I could stop by to say hi, maybe go out for a drink or something. You were insistent that I come to your work immediately, which I did. When you got off work, we went back to your place to get ready for a night out on the town. You made me try on several of your outfits, trying to find that perfect going out outfit (roles were reversed, eh?) You made me feel like I was a star, calling your friends, trying to make something happen because "my cousin Kelly is here from out of town and we have to take her out!” I discovered later that you actually had plans to make a special dinner that night, something you had been looking forward to, and without a moment’s hesitation, you put those plans on the back burner because you had family in town. That, Daniel, was such an amazing quality you had. I am trying to learn from this strength of yours, embody it, make it my own. Family comes first. Always. In return, you have a family that adores you. Respects you. Loves you. And definitely misses you. When I see that sun breaking through those dark clouds, sending a brilliant spotlight down to the earth, I see you. That brings a great smile to my face, knowing you are warm, safe, and content, but loved as hell down here on earth, as well. Take care, cuz, and we’ll see you soon. Love you,Kell

Daniel, my cousin

Daniel,
As I sit here to write the first post on your memorial blog, I'm at a loss for words . I have so many mixed emotions about what has happened. I still haven't come to terms with the reality of what has happened...and acceptance seems so far away. It feels like you are still just 2 hours away and I'm waiting for a late night phone call to tell me you're coming down to visit. Without fail, every time you came down it was a week day due to your work schedule. You would have to beg me to stay up past 9pm to hang out since I've turned into what you called.......an old lady. I am so thankful for your last visit, you actually came down on a Saturday night and we stayed out until 3 in the morning. We all had so much fun that night and I'm so thankful you got to meet more of my friends. What I'm even more thankful for is the last conversation we had on your birthday. You sounded so happy and were having such a great time, in a place you loved to visit. We talked about when you got back you were going to come down and we would celebrate our birthdays together. And before we hung up the phone we both said "I love you". I was looking forward to that next visit. Now when I think of our next visit I can only imagine what it will be like. Until then.......I will carry your spirit with me always and will never forget all of our great memories. I love you!!!

Jennifer